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  • Home
  • Our Team
    • Megan Gauthier, RSW
  • Specialties
    • Anxiety
    • Attachment Issues
    • EMDR
    • Trauma/PTSD
    • 2SLGBTQIA+
  • More Info
    • Fees
    • FAQ
    • Blog
  • Contact Us
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Attachment Issues

Do you struggle to feel truly seen and heard by the people closest to you?

 Perhaps conflict is leaving you feeling disconnected and frustrated, or past traumas are getting in the way of being able to show up the way you'd really like to. Are you unsure of how to move forward with a partner, a parent, or people in general? If so, I'm glad you're here. Our dedicated therapists provide a safe and supportive space for you to explore these issues and cultivate stronger, more fulfilling connections.

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Are you struggling to feel secure in your relationships?

Relationships may be the most rewarding, yet challenging, aspect of our day to day lives. With the potential to add so much richness and love to our existence, it's disappointing and painful when we feel unseen by our parents, when we keep cycling through the same arguments with a partner, or when we feel alone with the people we want to feel close to. Together, let's work to understand the relationship dynamics of your past, and how these dynamics are impacting your life today.  We can work toward fostering healthy, secure, and fulfilling relationships in your life. 

Attachment is everything

We are social bonding mammals

Humans are social beings meant to attach meaningfully to others. We are wired for connection, so much so that our wellbeing is directly related to our sense of connection with other people. Experiencing emotional isolation or lack of predictable connection is detrimental to our mental health. 

Attachment changes how we develop

As babies and children, we rely on our adult caregivers to show us what safe, secure attachment is like. When this doesn't happen, nearly all aspects of life are implicated, including emotional regulation, social skills/development, self-esteem, coping mechanisms, and identity formation. Attachment is the basis of how our personality develops.

It impacts relationship patterns as an adult

Attachment patterns established in childhood continue to influence adult relationships. Secure attachment fosters trust, intimacy, and emotional resilience, leading to healthier and more satisfying relationships. Insecure attachment patterns, such as anxious or avoidant attachment, can manifest as difficulties with trust and intimacy, anxiety, preoccupation with relationships, or avoidance of feelings, resulting in relational challenges and conflict.

Let's be honest - Dating is HARD

Most of us desire to love and be loved, but getting to that place is a whirlwind of challenges; from navigating apps to overcoming heartbreak to self doubt and insecurities. Unfortunately, there's no way around how much dating can suck sometimes. The good news is, we often have more control over how things are going than we think.


The people we gravitate towards, the way we handle conflict, the behaviours we tolerate, the cycles we get stuck in: all of this is informed by our earlier attachment. When we date someone, we're not only dating the person in front of us, but also their fears and learned ways of coping (and vice versa). 


Your therapist at Everworth will help you to illuminate these patterns, make sense of them in the context of your attachment, and chart a path toward more secure connection, with yourself and others.

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Healthy, meaningful relationships are possible for you

From the moment we are born, we seek connection and belonging, craving the warmth and security that comes from being loved and understood. However, the journey of forming and maintaining these attachments, whether it be with caregivers or with romantic partners, can be fraught with complexities. We may grapple with fear of rejection, struggle with vulnerability, or encounter barriers stemming from past experiences. Despite these difficulties, the rewards of attachment are profound - the comfort of a loved one's embrace, the joy of shared laughter, and the strength found in mutual support. At Everworth, we recognize the intricate dance between the joys and struggles of attachment. 


We use a combination of Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) to help you navigate the highs and lows of forming healthy attachments, fostering deeper connections, and ultimately, experiencing the richness and fulfillment that comes from authentic relationships.


  • You'll have a space to share how your relationships have been impacting your life
  • We'll explore your attachment history, including what things were like growing up with your caregivers and in past relationships
  • You'll learn more about the biology of attachment and your own attachment style
  • We'll talk about how you learned to relate to emotions as a child and what that taught you about how to regulate your emotions today 
  • We'll make sense of how your history has informed how you show up in relationships now, including the ways your brain/body has learned to keep you safe
  • We'll identify the things that have and have not been working for you
  • You'll be supported in developing a more secure sense of self


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Attachment Therapists at Everworth

Megan Gauthier, MSW RSW

Individual therapy for adults


Specialties: Trauma, Childhood Trauma, Relationship and Attachment Issues, Anxiety, Growing Up With Emotionally Immature Parents, Shame, Dissociation, LGBTQ+


Individual session fee: $160*

*Exempt from HST

More about Megan

I still have questions about therapy for attachment issues..

Absolutely. Relationship therapy can be valuable for individuals who are single or not currently in a relationship. It can help you gain clarity on your relationship dynamics, improve self-awareness, develop effective communication skills, set boundaries, and address unresolved issues from past relationships. It can also support personal growth and self-esteem. 


The short answer is no. The long answer is that therapists prioritize your well-being and safety while also respecting your autonomy and choices. Rather than giving direct advice, therapists often help you explore the consequences and implications of maintaining or ending contact with someone. They may assist you in evaluating the dynamics of the relationship, setting healthy boundaries, and considering alternative ways to address any challenges you may be facing. Ultimately, the decision to cut off contact with someone is yours, and your therapist's role is to support you in making choices that align with your values and promote your emotional and psychological health.


Yes,  therapy can help address issues such as trust issues, low self-esteem, and fear of abandonment that are often rooted in attachment-related experiences. Therapists use attachment-based interventions to explore the underlying causes of these issues, develop more adaptive coping strategies, and promote healing and growth.


Everworth Blog - Attachment


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